The Milni Ceremony in a Sikh Wedding Explained

The Milni (meaning "meeting") is the ceremony where the two families are formally introduced and welcomed to one another, usually on the wedding morning before the Anand Karaj. It symbolises the union of two families, not just two individuals.

When It Happens

The Milni typically takes place outside the gurdwara as the groom's party (barat) arrives, followed by tea and refreshments before the ceremony begins.

What Happens

Corresponding relatives from each family — for example the fathers, then uncles — are introduced one by one, exchanging garlands and embraces, often with gifts. An ardaas (prayer) usually opens the gathering.

Its Meaning

The Milni affirms that a Sikh marriage joins two families in lasting relationship and mutual respect.

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